I’m taken aback sometimes when people online comment that my hair always looks perfect or I always look so put together, in part because I’ve only been trying to look put together and understand a little about style for about two years now, but also because I only feel put together about half the time! When you are browsing any social media platform, just remember — every photo is just a snapshot of a single moment. I take a dozen pics to get the most flattering angle and light, and my pics only show the 50% of my life I remember or want to take a pic of. So don’t compare yourself to others, not in photographs online or in real life. Not only can we never see the whole picture, we don’t know what is going on behind the scenes or on the inside. So be kind to yourself, be kind to others. ❤️ This is exactly what I looked like in one moment for one photo this morning after going to bed with wet hair last night and then being up off and on all night with a baby who has a cold. So next time I post a selfie with my hair fixed and my makeup on, just remember that’s only a single instant captured, not the whole